Guys can be so funny sometimes. I don't know why they believe in the theory that once you've hit it, you can always hit it again.Or why they think that just because they are attracted to a girl and she likes them, they can have sex with her. What if the girl doesn't want to? What if she is not attracted to you any more? What if she is just not in the mood for sex? What if she is not in the right place in her mind? What if, what if, what if?
You come to me and say let's just be friends with benefit. You like me, but you are not ready for a serious relationship so let's just maintain the status-quo. What does that mean? To me, you are saying that you just want to have sex with me. Guys, please correct me if I'm wrong. I'm probably not wrong though.
You come over, we chill and watch a game on TV. Then you start feeling up on me. I move cos I don't want anything to happen. I am perfectly fine with just chilling with you and watching a game or movie. You then make a move and I rebuff you. You get upset at me. You start asking funny questions. What's wrong with me? Why can't I just say yes? Why must I be so stubborn and difficult? Why do I find it so hard to say yes? Can't I just do this one thing for you?
As I sit and listen to you complain, I am perplexed. How can you be saying these things to me? You ask me to do this thing for you like it's a favour. This is my body we are talking about. I can't just give it to you. I am hurt by your words. We are friends and I am sad that this is what we have become.
You keep trying to cajole me. You say that it won't happen often. That is will be just once in a while. I let you know that it is not about frequency. I just don't want to have sex. You then try another angle. What if I meet the right guy, will I say the same thing. I wonder what that has to do with anything. I don't believe there is any right guy out there right now, so I don't care. You keep pushing me. So I won't have sex till I get married? Again, what does that have to do with anything. I might not wait till marriage, but as of right now, I AM NOT HAVING SEX!
I maintain my stand and refuse to give in. You leave my house in annoyance. I can't believe it. So because you are sexually attracted to me I must have sex with you? Well, that's not my problem. You can be vexed all you want. When you calm down, you can call me and we can continue our friendship. But do not for one second think that I would have changed my mind. Because of this singular act of yours, I will never have sex with you.
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